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[-] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 57 points 5 days ago

If someone replies with just the words "that's not dull", I interpret it as more of a gatekeep-y response. The ones I naturally read as compliments usually have a little more flair, e.g. "Way too interesting to post here" "this is more of a c/extraordinarygentlemensclub post"

[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 18 points 5 days ago

Checked to see if that was a real comm, i'm dissapointed.

[-] IrateAnteater@sh.itjust.works 16 points 5 days ago

Be the change you want to see in the world

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 11 points 5 days ago

well I should start by saying this is not really a shower thought and would make more sense in ask lemmy but for myself its kinda a compliment.

[-] IcedRaktajino@startrek.website 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

A question can be a shower thought, especially if it's a rhetorical question.

Not to mention, the Philosophical Raptor meme format is pretty much just interrogative shower thoughts

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Wait. Are you complimenting or gatekeeping?

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 5 days ago

a bit of joking because of his topic and a bit of gatekeeping because it is the wrong community for a question but he is saying its rhetorical.

[-] Fleur_@aussie.zone 6 points 4 days ago

Not a shower thought

[-] paraplu@piefed.social 7 points 5 days ago

I've only seen it in a you're selling yourself short fashion.

As long as it's something you did, people seem quite relaxed about what gets posted.

[-] IcedRaktajino@startrek.website 2 points 5 days ago

I've only seen it in a you're selling yourself short fashion.

Yeah, that's usually how I see it, or maybe just how I've always interpreted it.

[-] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Mostly a compliment. You can get a gut feeling from comments that just say: "Not dull." or similar.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Depends if it's truly dull or not

[-] Wolf314159@startrek.website 4 points 5 days ago

They're admitting how dull they are.

[-] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 4 points 5 days ago

This guy’s a total shower.

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

We're jealous.

[-] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 2 points 4 days ago

I count that as gatekeeping. It's the reason my contribution to that community has degreased over 90%. If it was just "men's club" then I'd have a ton of stuff to post there but nowdays I just consider it all too interesting to post there but not interesting enough to post anywhere else so I just don't post it anywhere then.

[-] mangaskahn@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

Start your own community. I'd follow mildly interesting men's club.

[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 5 points 4 days ago

Careful that it doesn't morph into downright interesting men's club, it's a slippery slope

[-] GottaHaveFaith@fedia.io 3 points 5 days ago

it's like the unpopular opinion sub, technically you have to upvote stuff you don't like

[-] snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)
[-] expatriado@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

as a compliment?

[-] kbal@fedia.io 3 points 5 days ago

Most likely they are pointing out that you lack a certain subtlety of understanding and have made a mistake.

[-] paraphrand@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Matters of taxonomy.

[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 1 points 4 days ago

I think you should take all of it as praise

[-] Steve@startrek.website 2 points 5 days ago
[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago
[-] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago
[-] untorquer@quokk.au 1 points 5 days ago

There is the other option, that the post was so underwhelming as to have lost any meaningful attribute allowing categorization as something that could be described as dull.

Which again could be utter insult or the highest of praise. 🤷

this post was submitted on 22 May 2026
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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

Rules

  1. All posts must be showerthoughts
  2. The entire showerthought must be in the title
  3. No politics
    • If your topic is in a grey area, please phrase it to emphasize the fascinating aspects, not the dramatic aspects. You can do this by avoiding overly politicized terms such as "capitalism" and "communism". If you must make comparisons, you can say something is different without saying something is better/worse.
    • A good place for politics is c/politicaldiscussion
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