submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by to c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Gonna come out to my entire social circle in the village I am originally from. This means coming out to 30 people at once and hope it goes well :3

Update: it went well, did not receive any negative "feedback", but got some compliments on being so brave to do that in this round.

all 33 comments

sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] 48 points 9 months ago (1 child)

you're using :3 they already know

(but for real good luck :3)

  • source
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 31 points 9 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] 23 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    If it destroys your social circle, you need a new social circle.

  • source
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] [S] 21 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    I will report back how it goes (gonna do that today in the evening). I have to do it since I started HRT now and so I kinda want to avoid for people to realise changes without knowing I'm trans.

    Also I dont want to hide who I really am any longer.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 16 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Yay, congrats! I’m so glad your social circle was supportive. 💕

    I just shared your story with my girlfriend (we’re both women, we know what it’s like to “come out.”) She wanted to share that she’s so glad for you, and that she wishes you a beautiful life journey!

  • source
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Jokes on you, I don't have a social circle!

    sighs and goes back to watching anime

  • source
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago*

    Congrats!

    Edit: thanks for taking the time to update us. It means a lot to see small snippets of good news like this.

  • source
  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago

    Hell yeah, I'm glad that coming out went well for you :3

  • source
  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    You won't be living there forever. And friends who accept your queerness are way better.

  • source
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] [S] 9 points 9 months ago*

    Im not there most of the time, so it isnt to bad if that social circle dies, but it would still be sad to lose literally all social contacts when I'm there (and also lose the contact to all this people I've known for years) just because they aren't accepting.

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago

    I'm pressing thumbs for you!

  • source
  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Heh, the Thanksgiving tradition of coming out to your formers. hehehehe.

  • source
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] [S] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Its not thanksgiving (I'm not from the us, so it doesn't even get celebrated here) but instead the general assembly of a club I'm part of.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • 30 people at once? that's... gl

  • source
  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago

    I'm right behind you! The only people I haven't come out to yet are in the workplace and can't be ditched as easily if things go sour. I'm glad everything worked out well for you!

  • source
  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    we did it, team!

  • source
  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    Best of luck!
    I hope everything will go smoothly :3

  • source
  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago*

    They know :3

  • source
  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (1 child)

    Good luck to you. I sincerely hope it goes better than you imagine.

    Although I suspect and hope your friends will be accepting. Best wishes!

  • source
  • hideshow 1 child comment