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[–] 112 points 1 year ago (6 children)

My neighbor HATES me because I've been converting my backyard into clover. We have fireflies, Butterflies, bees, bunnies, all sorts of wildlife. It smells beautiful, but we are an oasis amongst upper-middle class lawn zombies... Mowing, edging, pesticide spraying, weed killing zombies.

Meanwhile, I have milkweed, clover, chive, snapdragons, black eyed susans, grapes, raspberries, lilac, echinacea, chamomile, lavender, hydrangea, coreopsis, and salvia. I welcome wasps that eat pests, I buy bags of ladybugs, I compost... I'm really trying. It's only 1/4 an acre, but I'm trying.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    Since getting my own place I can actually have a more natural garden, removed so much concrete. So many bees! I can even hear them from inside now that they are swarming around the poppies. Sage and to some extent chive flowers got a few bees earlier in the year but those flowers have died off now.

    Should take pictures of them so that in the future we can remember what bees were.

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  • [–] 20 points 1 year ago

    From 1 internet stranger to another, thank you. It really means a lot to me that people are doing what they can at their own level like you. I know how demotivating and isolating it can feel to be the only one doing the necessary work.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago*

    I dislike the mowing robots because they seem to encourage the Flatt grass only gardens and I hate them.

    You can still have flowers around them yes, but the grass is mostly a plant and insect desert.

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  • [+] 89 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)
  • [–] 61 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Man im working so hard to be that yard, but its not as easy as just stop mowing!

    Always on the lookout for invasives, poison ivy, tree sapplings (my yard isnt big enough to support any more trees without threatening the house), and other undesirables.

    Then theres also the english ivy encroaching from the corner that I've pretty much given up on :/

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago

    English ivy is a tough one, but at least getting the vertical growth is a fairly easy to manage. the vertical growth is also more problematic because it is a requirement for producing berries and killing trees

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  • [–] 30 points 1 year ago

    My lack of mowing gives us a light show every summer night.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago

    My yard is the only reason we have frogs and dragonflies.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago

    Friendly reminder that lightning bugs need tall grasses present in addition to wildflowers and leaf litter. You can also improve their survival rates by removing artificial lighting or even just setting any safety lighting (like motion activated lamps) to their shortest "on" duration. Another obvious step is to avoid pesticides.

    https://www.fws.gov/story/save-fireflies

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

    Alright I'm going to need all of your suggestions as this is the project I'm working on right now.

    A bought a small townhouse in Ontario 7 months ago and I have a tiny yard.

    The yard had mostly grass, but had a little bit of moss, crab grass, and clover. There is a small garden, and many dirt patches in the yard.

    I have spread clover seed in the yard, especially in the dirt patches.

    Then I weeded the garden area, removed about half the rocks but left some in the garden, I have my mother coming over next month to help me pick local garden flowers, and I had to pull a tiny tree out because it was planted right beside the foundation of the building and would eventually cause damage.

    What else should be added to the lawn? Should I be pulling out the crabgrass? What wildflowers are native to Ontario?

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago

    Visit some Garden Centres near you- often they'll have seed mixes of local perennial flowers available for purchase, you just need to spread the seeds in the spring or autumn.

    Also, "weeds" aren't always weeds, they're just plants that some people decided get in the way of monocultures. If it's flowering, it's feeding insects, so leave it be.

    The fireflies are awesome in my area this summer and my humble yard is part of that. It's honestly so satisfying watching plants come back year after year, bigger and bigger

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    [+] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 7 months ago)
    [–] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Lightning bug, eh? I smell a Pennsylvania native

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    They're called that in a lot of places.

    Source: I'm from Texas.

    And here's a pretty picture to prove it.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Funny that Californians even have a strong opinion

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  • It makes me happy to see the phrase "lightning bug" used so often here on Lemmy. I grew up calling them lightning bugs, yet I felt like it's been ages since I heard or saw that word. Then I started coming here, and I see it in every post about this topic. The term brings me back to my childhood, picturing the way my parents' backyard used to light up every summer evening.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)

    Lightning bugs never existed where I live 😞 I didn’t realize they were real until my mid teens even

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (1 child)
    [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Aren't those called fireflies?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Ha! This is me and my yard. Let’s go!

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  • i'd never heard fireflies called lightning bugs before

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Oh Lemmy, I saw all the lightning bugs in the trees last night, blinking fast as hell because of the high temperature, and I thought of you!

    I was just discussing my raggedy-ass yard and it’s contribution to the local fauna.

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