Lemmy itself is going through growing pains too

Yes, I understand that people like myself fleeing from an increasingly commercialized and censored Reddit are causing problems here, hence my patience.

Do you use any mobile clients or alternative front ends for Lemmy

I've got Jerboa on my mobile, but I find it very confusing to use so I hardly ever do, anyhow I am not a 'mobile friendly' person, I own one but it spends most of its life sitting on my desk switched off. Try not to be too shocked, it's bad for your blood pressure!