submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by to c/unpopularopinion@lemmy.world
 

I have kids that I raise, they are great kids, I love them to death but if someone thinks kids aren't a burden (of any sort) than they're lying.

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[–] 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I think burden is the wrong word. It implies an overall negative effect on life, like saying that playing a sport is a burden because you have to dedicate time and energy to it. Yes, my daughter does take up a huge part of my life and I've had to give up hobbies in order to make time for her.

Responsibility and commitment, yes.

Burden, no.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Webster has "duty, responsibility" listed as one of the definitions of burden. In that sense I think they are spot on. However, other people's interpretation of the word can obviously vary

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