submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by to c/unpopularopinion@lemmy.world
 

I have kids that I raise, they are great kids, I love them to death but if someone thinks kids aren't a burden (of any sort) than they're lying.

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[–] 11 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Yup.

I've got two (5,1). I absolutely adore them both, but I'd be lying if I said that having kids hasn't made my life significantly harder, my mental health significantly worse and my sense of self significantly weaker.

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    One thing I can say is enjoy it while it lasts LOL!

    When they get older you miss those days when they were small and easy to understand. Those teenage years, hell.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I guess at the very least I get to enjoy their excited faces when I get home from work. Can't imagine you get much of that when they pass you on the way to their bedroom later on?

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