I hate how judgemental people are about food.
The scary thing is, food is directly connected to a person's ability to live. So when you get in there psychologically and root around, spreading shame and judgement, it might actually stick with someone. It might actually be just ONE more little straw on the camel's back to break it. Because food is so directly and intimately connected to a person's physical ability to be healthy, it might very well cascade into something bigger than you ever anticipated.
Especially with all of society yelling their own version of it. And family.
I really, really wish people would shut the hell up about other people's food habits. It doesn't really cost YOU anything, but it might actually make life easier on THEM.