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[–] 5 points 1 day ago* (6 children)

....you ignore the thirsty men. What do you mean?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago (5 children)

    Idk honestly i just imagine hundreds of dms constantly coming. And if you get normsl ones it seems like a huge hassle trying to filter through them.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 hours ago

    It's lemmy, I figure here there's less dms for such things than elsewhere. Personally I didn't get dms in response to when I posted my boobs. A fair number of comments though. I've gotten dms for doing it on other sites, but not super many. Though I'll acknowledge my username probably plays a role in that. And yeah you can just ignore them. Or erp, or whatever you want with them.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 day ago* (3 children)

    Oh hahaha well. Honestly there aren't as many DMs sometimes as you'd imagine (as a femme person who has posted nudes before). And posting nudes isn't the best way to find sincere men in the DMs. Sometimes the attention is kinda nice though, but it's never been the main motivator for me. Exhibitionism and the thrill of doing something naughty is way more motivating than men being thirsty haha.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    Maybe im just to old anymore but i remember back in the day i felt something similar. But im ancient at the ripe old age of 33. Honestly figuring out how to reply to you was not easy, i couldnt help but try to not come off as some creep even though i did check your post for nudes out of curiosity. I failed but whatever. And i saw your other comment and no matter what ill always be an ally!

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  • [–] 4 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    Hahah I try to keep my nudes separate from my feminist killjoy accounts ;)

    I appreciate that you put some thought into replying to me and I'm sorry that I was a little blunt initially. We're cool :)

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  • [–] 3 points 1 day ago

    Naw im actually a huge bitchy asshole. I might mean well but i just say some of the stupidest things and i deserve all the criticism i get. But its nice becoming cool with someone out of no where. Everyone likes making new friends.

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