Danny Trejo is a guy who had an abusive father who taught him in the most textbook way of "toxic masculinity". For a very long time Trejo kept up that sort of tough guy alpha male behaviour until, quite late in his life, he pretty much broke it all down learning it's complete bullshit.

Since then he's been trying to turn his life around. Trying to be more open and sensitive, trying to undo the things inside him that were put there by his father.

So... I do t blame the Internet for giving this guy the benefit of the doubt.