Oh God help me. If every women in your made up scenario pulled the trigger against a man SA or raping them there would be 90 million+ dead men.
My grandmother, mother, my wife, and my daughters have all been SA and raped in their lifetime. Every single women I have ever had the privilege to talk to about this has also been. I am a social worker by trade so I have talked to several hundred.
Right now there are over four million women that live in fear of gun death everyday. We have lost more civilians to gun violence in the last thirty years than every single soldier we have lost in every single war we have ever been in.
Not just heterosexuals either. I have met several gay men that fear their partner. If they leave them they are worried they would kill them.
This is our society. Have fun living with your defense fantasy larping imagination guns solve our problems bullshit.