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Have you ever rejected someone's apology? If so, why? And was it the right thing to do? (reddthat.com)
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[–] 0 points 4 hours ago (1 child)

I’d personally argue that any condition with lack of empathy has a higher chance of leading to abusive behaviours.

Autism is associated with reduced cognitive empathy, which is the ability to intuit others' thoughts. As an autistic being, it's harder for Me to tell what other people are thinking and what they mean to communicate, outside My areas of expertise. But having autism doesn't make Me abusive.

Another similarity between autism and NPD is the name. Autism is Latin for self-ism. Early psychiatrists believed us ASD folks were preoccupied with ourselves, same with NPD. NPD has had less social progress, so uneducated people still believe that about NPD, even though increased awareness has helped people grow beyond that thinking with ASD.

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  • [–] -1 points 3 hours ago

    So we're just ignoring everything else I wrote and fixating on the subjective personal opinion? Ok then.

    The name doesn't matter; Autism is nothing like Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The only thing I can see that overlaps at all is maybe communication difficulties; but again, the practical manifestation of these communication difficulties are extremely different.

    Autism

    Autism, also known as autism spectrum disorder (ASD), is a condition characterized by impairment in social communication and interaction, as well as a need or strong preference for predictability and routine, sensory processing differences, focused interests, or repetitive behaviors.

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a complex and heterogeneous personality disorder characterized by patterns of grandiosity, entitlement, low empathy, and interpersonal difficulties, which can manifest as either grandiose ("thick-skinned") or vulnerable ("thin-skinned") forms.

    Grandiose individuals display arrogance, social dominance, and exploitative behaviors, while vulnerable individuals show shame, inferiority, hypersensitivity, and extreme reactions to criticism. NPD often involves impaired emotional empathy, superficial relationships, and difficulty tolerating disagreement.

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