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The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
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Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Rainbow Railroad // A non-profit international humans rights organization helping at risk LGBTQ+ people relocate to safety.

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submitted 6 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) by Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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So, after exchanging emails with the clinic in Thailand, having a good feeling about it, finally looking forward to it...it seems I'm not having SRS until January 2028 at the earliest.

That is all I wanted to say. I'm going to go continue having a breakdown now. Good day

Sorry for making this about myself again...

Edit: Of course I had a fight with my partner again. Because I was being "mean" to him, he yelled at me again. I'm breaking up with him, for real this time. I don't need someone that constantly downplays my problems in my life. I'm done with this
Edit2: It's too much. It's too much at once. I'm gonna fucking die

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[–] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 11 points 6 hours ago

fuck, that's awful... i'm sorry ༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ wish i could give you a hug in-person. i'm happy to lend an ear if you need one, you know my matrix id :)

reveals a single piece of very bad news

Sorry for making this about myself again...

girl you are being a bit silly:

this post is not you making it all about yourself, it's you making a single complaint
even if you were making it all about yourself (which, as far as i'm concerned, you aren't), this would be an entirely reasonable situation to do so

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