even if what you said was reasonable (which it isnt, reactionaries will distort criticism to fit their "anti woke 1.0 machine" no matter how you "smartly" do it) you immediately lose all credibility upon using the phrase "walk on eggshells" unironically lol, this is literally "anti woke 1.0 machine" rhetoric you are allegedly trying to prevent
walking into an oppressed community space that youve never interacted with and telling them how to form their criticism to appease reactionaries (and yes that is what you are doing) and expecting to be 1. taken seriously and 2. treated with upmost decorum is nonsense no matter if you are part of the wider group or not
im not really sure where i accused you of not belonging here? i guess you could interpret me saying "fuck off" as that but i wouldnt say thats me saying "you dont belong here" and more "stop bringing brazenly ableist nonsense to the disabled comm". and the last sentence of my last comment was just the same vibe, not a 1:1 comparison. (also the phrase "walk on eggshells" has just increased that vibe lol)
you can say youre not defending hasan if you want but that doesnt change the fact you went out of your way to tell other disabled people they need to "be careful about calling him out" for being ableist