maybe the animal crossing series is an exception..? there's no combat, and the focus is generally on building & developing a community while planting different fruit-trees/flowers/crops
although the latest game could be seen to be a bit coloniser-y, since its aim isn't developing an existing community, but to find an island & create a community there.
but back to your point, i think this is a problem with films & tv too, the ones filled with violence & dystopia seem to get the most funding. i feel like people are less & less able to imagine better worlds, the more they're only fed narratives with violence and dystopia.
so in this political climate, it's more important than ever for creative people to go against the grain & show people that there are different ways of doing things, and that creation is more powerful than destruction. fair play to you for doing so! i hope many more people follow suit ๐