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[–] 1 point 3 hours ago (2 children)

I really don't know what I'm talking about but I always assumed bisexual was attracted to both traditionally presenting men and women, but maybe not so attracted to others, androgynous presenting or otherwise.

Pansexual is really like they dont even consider a persons gender at all, they can be attracted to anyone binary presenting or non-binary presenting

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  • [–] 4 points 2 hours ago (1 child)

    I'm not interested in binary gender conformity and gender conformity is NOT a part of how I experience my sexuality as a bisexual person, and I've never met a bisexual person who's claimed this is a part of their experience, I'm in my 40s, male, and spent a long time repressing my sexuality for everyone else's supposed comfort or benifit, and of course my supposed safety as growing up we were all told any variety of non cishet behavior would get us all killed and many followed through with that threat. I'm very much against anyone being told they need to fit any kind of construct of sexual or gender expression based on anything other that however they choose. and a lot of Bi people will get really put out of you place anti-trans bullshit on them. I'm PARTICULARLY attracted to people who DON'T confirm to gender demands of society and the binary gender construct is crazy harmful to so many people I deeply love and care about and will fight for and do what I can to protect. I'd really recommend not putting this supposed definition of bisexuality out, it's very contradictory to every bi person I've ever known's stated experience.

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