Their level, though, was national which is kind of ridiculous to still be organizing out of one's home
This is why I'm not giving them much grace (especially since we already know sex pest behavior is a thing with these 3 guys).
If a local can keep things professional, national shouldn't have a problem. They aren't literally fighting a guerilla war. They have the ability to acquire a space to organize out of. If it is at someone's home, the other organizers shouldn't be doing housework for you either. That just reeks of abuse of power.
Also not trying to wreck or anything, we had to deal with something similar when I was still part of my DSA local during COVID. One of the local chairmen was outed as an abuser and some others helped cover it up for a while. They also wanted to have people (mostly women) in their home. Luckily there was the IBEW hall and a co-op bookstore that hosted most meetings (same ones also hosted PSL and SRA meetings lol).