But to ignore that their are valuable philosophical messages in the ideas of the character that is called christs (fictious or a merge of different philosophers) and that some people are capable of practicing their religion in a beneficial and progressive way is immature.
You are dangerously wrong. It's a death cult.
Did you know that all of those good things are even better without the foundation of an abusive god? Do you realize that "christ" has a specific meaning, a human sacrifice to save us from a punishment we do not deserve in the first place?
Please use your brain. People are dying.
Jesus remains a great role model, and quite the social anarchist.
He did not invent his teachings. The golden rule predates him. He preached one way and lived another, he was a hypocrite. He was a delusional narcissist who got a lot of people killed for his bullshit.
Did he do some good? Sure. But there's more poison in there than you realize. You can do so much better, please find a role model who doesn't use baseless claims to manipulate people.
A message of unconditional love
Are you kidding? It's as conditional as it gets, you must submit completely to him or he'll punish you. That is not love.
accepting others without judgment
He was constantly judging people. At this point, I'm wondering whether you have read the bible.
and helping those in need
When he felt like it.
it simply cant be more in contrast with US Nat-C(ristian) hate.
It's exactly the same. "Submit or die."
That is the contrast what is generally meant with “actual christianity”
There is a difference between following Jesus and following christ. Both are harmful, but at least Jesus was (probably) real. There is no actual christ, there are no actual christians.
Please never make the mistake of defending a death cult again.