By telling you to trust virgin men instead of women on matters of what said women think, said virgin men fried your understanding of the world forever.

Technically true. Fun and interesting are what most people are attracted to regardless of gender. People also are particularly prone to developing attraction to people they feel good being around.

Kindness is however a prerequisite for a large portion of women (and an absolute no go for plenty of other women, because people). The ones who want kindness are much better partners

Well, I was nice to her, and now I'm married, so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

oh here we go. with the nice guys. yeah, be an aggro butthole, lay out the insults, they LOVE IT! buddy. you've been sold the garbage and you're eating it.