If you are a family capable of raising ten cats and you do not, you owe me an explanation.
If you are a man capable of making me a cup of coffee right now and you aren't, why? No. Not just me, tell the world!
I have never been able to wrap my mind around needing everyone else to live the way you do. I don't care, just cannot care. I had lots of kids and helped raise more, it was great, I enjoyed it so much. That has never once made me think everyone else in the world should do the same, it makes no sense. People want & enjoy different things, we are individuals.