I feel like such a weirdo for saying this and I’m torn between posting in the empoc thread or to the general site. But I don’t have the time to field dogpiling today if the general site thinks I’m too much of an ultra for this, and it’s intended more of as introspective musing than as struggle-session fodder: Dolly Parton has always made me uncomfortable
When did I ever even learn she existed? Sometime in early childhood, but late enough that I’d learned that those white folks with those drawls and country-fashion and US flags were dangerous. They were racist when I met them irl. They were genocidal warmongers on the TV. They glorified a culture that had murdered First Nations en masse, a culture that had tortured and enslaved Africans for generations, a culture that was now calling people who looked like me “terrorists” and doing horribly evil things. The music that came from that culture and was inescapable on the radio, in stores, was all pro war nationalistic bullshit. That culture was not to be trusted, and nor was anyone from it.
I didn’t know anything about Dolly Parton except that the biggest part of her brand was “white southern belle”, and so I was uncomfortable with her and did my best to just ignore her. She didn’t stand out any more than anyone else really. Until later, when for reasons I could not understand, it turned out she had become or perhaps had already been a meme and a queer, feminist, working class icon!
Alright, so I would just ignore that discomfort or say fine, she’s a complicated woman. Maybe I misjudged her. She can’t help what culture she was born into, right? I watched 9 to 5 and thought it was fun. Not all discomfort or bias is legit or fair.
Well then today I saw this post: https://hexbear.net/post/9405321
Fucking what. She was part of the same wave of post-9/11 jingoistic nationalistic country music that made me detest the genre so much! And people just roll with it? This cover creeps me out as much as if that were the 3rd Reich’s flag and she were posing in a Nazi suit with a hakenkreuz armband.
Am I saying Dolly Parton is cancelled? No, though that may just be cowardice on my part. If I think about it more then maybe I will. But, making it less about one dead woman who took some good stands and bad ones, it’s gotten me grappling more with how perplexed I’ve felt at liberals and even left-leaning people — not just white, black too! — leaning into the cowboy country wild western aesthetic. When people were falling over themselves about Lil Nas X fusing country with hip-hop and queering it, my only reaction was “Meh — what in country can be disentangled from white supremacy? Why would you want it?” Everything cowboy-ey is tinged with slavery and genocide to me, and it’s weird to see anyone desiring it at all. If you want some American Southwest desert culture that’s cooler, there were and are people living there who weren’t genocidal colonizing slavers! I cannot shake this feeling that fetishization of “country” is inherently white supremacist, even when queer poc do it, even when they obviously don’t mean it that way.
RIP to Dolly anyway, and I’ll withhold the crabs raves out of respect for the good that she did do, but I don’t think I’ll ever be comfortable with her or any presentation of her legacy that does not grapple with everything that was problematic about what she represented and did. But that is also a problem that is much bigger than just her, and I acknowledge it isn’t fair to pin it all on her.


