The cruelty is the point. They don't want trans people to exist, but they refuse to do something they believe would dirty their hands, so they force us into impossible situations, and when suicide obits pop up, they believe themselves to be good people because they knowingly ignore the connection between their actions and those of the dead.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: never kill yourself for something that's somebody else's fault.

That's what Rowling and her Tories are hoping for. Conservatives worldwide are actively trying to genocide us.

E: to answer your other question: fight back and talk to cis people about it. We've been screaming from the rooftops for an eternity to deaf ears.