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Would you rather: date someone who you like but who doesn't initially like you back, or date someone who likes you whom you don't initially like back? (lemmy.world)
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[–] 4 points 1 day ago (1 child)

I’d schedule dates with both prospective partners to see who I’m more compatible with moving forward.

How much we did/didn’t like each other before we agreed to go on a date is absurdly irrelevant and a very childish kind of mindset to have when dating.

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  • [–] [S] -2 points 1 day ago

    That's an interesting point of view. I'm demi, so I only develop feelings once I know someone well. I feel like by then I already know if we're compatible. But I guess that's not the case for most people.

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