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[–] 24 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Both sound terrifying and stressful. If they start off liking me I'll be worried every day they'll realize what I really am and leave, and if I have to earn their love they can take it away whenever they get bored with me.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 day ago

    Amazingly, my ex did both (realize what I am, and take away their affection like dropping a bag of shit with zero emotional loss) after six years together. And we started as liking each other mutually from the start. No situation is safe.

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