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Since ours in the US is generally a percentage of the bill, people in expensive restaurants can make more. Do they work harder? Do they have fewer tables so less checks are tipping? 20% tips on 5 hundred dollar tables is $100 every 60-90 minutes, but shifts are usually only a few hours. So maybe $3-400 for a 4-5 hour dinner shift? In a diner you'd are probably half that per table but for more tables and faster turnover. What's a good wage?

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[-] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 hours ago

Serving is an unskilled position. They should be able to make enough money to cover rent, bills, food, family and transportation…with at least something left over at the end of it that could be saved or used for leisure. In other words, they deserve to make as much as any other worker.

  • Take down the order of what I want to eat
  • Give that info to the kitchen
  • Return with Food
  • Ask if the food is good, and if a second round of ordering is needed
  • Occasionally recommend the same dish, over and over

There is nothing that a server does that entitles them to a percentage of my bill. I was a server. On the whole, it sucks if you are not a pretty/hot/cute/desirable person.

Tipping in general is theft. Theft from the customer, and wage theft from the worker.

[-] rowinxavier@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago

No disrespect meant, but the term unskilled in actually part of corporate propaganda. If someone who starts working there today is not as good at it as someone who has worked there for 2 years then there are skills which take time to acquire and thus it is a skilled job. Unskilled labour is an invention of capitalists who want to pay as little as possible and will use whatever weasle words they can to convince other workers that either they are better than the unskilled or that they themselves are unskilled and replaceable.

[-] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

That’s fair. I was using the term to differentiate between someone who completes an apprenticeship, certificate, or degree program that is required before one can work in certain jobs/professions versus a newspaper ad. An honest days work is work, obviously.

[-] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 2 points 2 hours ago

Tipping in general is theft. Theft from the customer, and wage theft from the worker.

Amen!!

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