No no it’s fine . I still have soo many questions

Like I said my man, I'm willing to answer anything I can. I am not an expert nor a IT guy. There are many more skilled and knowledgable here. I just do a ton of reading, and a lot of trying, until it works correctly, then I write all that down because my brain is shit.

I saw in your dashboard that you have tailscale

I have Tailscale as an overlay VPN on both the pfsense firewall, and the servers themselves as a security measure. I can 'tunnel in' via Tailscale if I need to. It's also useful if pull a boner like I've done in the past and locked myself out of my server. DOH! Dumbass. LOL

I would like to get into reading any recommendations ? any genre is fine

Such as technical material, or just casual entertainment reading? If you're a new kid on the Linux/selfhosting block, I highly recommend Linux Upscale Challenge. TechnoTim has some good stuff to read. There's also blogs like https://selfh.st/ and https://noted.lol/ tho noted.lol doesn't seem as active as selfh.st.

Your answers were written in near perfect english........ How did you do that !

Well, English is my native tongue, tho I wouldn't say I speak it perfectly. I do know a few other languages such as Spanish, Patois (which you'd hear throughout the Caribbean), and a couple others just enough to get by. I also use spellcheck prolifically. If anyone ever got access to my browsing history, they'd see a ton of searches to see if I'm actually using a word correctly. I really can't explain it more specifically than that, other than it's just the way I converse normally? Thanks for the compliment tho, I guess. LOL