I'm quite new to this craft myself, but IMO all photography is real photography. It is how you approach it that makes the difference. Lighting, perspective, and environment are all important considerations. Quite a bit of the look is reliant on editing too. I'm still struggling to learn proper editing, but practice makes perfect.
You're incredibly lucky to work with owls. That sounds like an excellent time. They're the bird that constantly eludes me.
I was probably 10' from the egret. They're surprisingly docile sometimes.
If you ever find yourself getting interested in camera gear you can find some solid used gear for cheap. My initial birding setup was incredibly cheap considering how expensive the new stuff can get. A decent camera and a nice telephoto zoom lens can get you really close to the subject.




