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[–] 8 points 3 months ago* (4 children)

call me whatever you want I genuinely don't care. you can call me he she they or it I genuinely don't care. the funniest thing a patient called me is a reference to one of my many obvious physical deformities. if you care what I'm called that's very genuinely a you problem. and honestly the more it bothers people to not know what to call me the funnier it gets.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago

    I love it when kids call me fat or shout "Why is that fat man so hairy?" and their parents look mortified and tell them not to be rude while I laugh and agree with the kid, or answer them. For example, that last kid I told I was actually way less hairy than when I was a kid: back then I looked just like a little ball of fur and all you could see was my feet!

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago* (1 child)

    I feel the same way about my pronouns. It truly doesn't matter to me. I'm glad people who feel strongly about it have the opportunity to make that choice, I just can't relate to giving a damn about it. I had to call some customer service line a few times over the course of several days about a year ago, and every time I did, the agent asked the pronoun question. After like the fourth call I was getting annoyed. You'd think they'd add it to your profile after the first time, but no, even though they clearly had all my other information on a screen in front of them, they still had to ask. I don't get that.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago*

    I must also confess to a slight paranoia about such things. I feel like my gender is information neither the government nor the company I buy pants from actually need. Why do they want to know? How is it going to change what they do for me?

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