Would you like to live in putin's russia until you die? Because that is what happened to the people in the occupied regions, wheter they like it or not.

(And please don't mention the referendum. Between killed, coerced, exiles and fraud it's a pornographic notion to think you can have a referendum in those conditions.)

The Ukrainian choice here is not peace vs war, that's russia's choice.

Ukrainians' choice here is whether to accept to live in putin's russia by force or to resist his troops' advances by force and a lot of people in your instance believe that it is up to Ukraine to solve the problem that russia created by accepting putin's laws (which I guess nobody in your instance would accept, since you are anti-homophobia etc etc)