... this is the tame, fishbowl, lemmy version of 4chan community.

Yes, yes obviously most of the people here come from very fucked up families.

... do you think normal, well adjusted, happily raised children... tend to end up anywhere near 4chan?

There's a reason 4chan has been repeatedly targetted and 4channers have been repeadtedly weaponized by extreme right wing political groups.

4chan's demographic is primarily fucked up young men/boys.