GraniteM comments on Bad photoshop not AI

[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 15 points 4 months ago (4 children)

If you can't bring more to a relationship than an appliance can, then you've got to work on yourself.

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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 4 months ago (3 children)

This is a bad take. There's nothing wrong with using toys during sex. There's nothing wrong with your partner using a toy on you instead of their body nor is there nothing wrong with your partner just enjoying witnessing you using a toy on yourself. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves and everything is consensual and safe, who cares?

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[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 10 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I fully agree with everything you just said. My point was that if you bring so little to the table that you feel you're in danger of being successfully replaced by a toy, then you need to do some self-improvement.

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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 0 points 4 months ago (1 child)

I guess I can agree with that with the caveat that the self improvement should be understanding that the presence of a toy in sex isn't replacing you at all. Wanting to use a toy with someone is not replacing them.

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[–] SparroHawc@piefed.world 1 point 4 months ago

Using the toy on your partner is potentially part of bringing more to the table, yes.

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