No actually that is basically what co-opting is or means.

Who said this was 'predominant' behavior, of all feminists?

Not me.

Who claimed that the definition I gave was of what I consider real feminism?

I specifically set it apart, gave it a new conceptual descriptive name, as well as definition.

Nobody at any point said that misogyny is not a prevalent problem as well, with very prominent proponents.

I'm not gonna be talking to you anymore, because you're apparently not capable of engaging in this discussion in good faith, you're either consciously or unconsciously putting a crap ton of words into my mouth that I did not say.