You should have those women get together with the women who say "any guy who talks to a woman at the gym is a creep," and have them reach a consensus instead of giving men this constant mixed messaging that "You're an asshole if you talk to women, but actually a few of these women secretly want you to talk to them and you're not a real man if you don't. Just don't guess wrong about which is which."
It's like playing minesweeper, except you don't get any hints.