Anybody want to commiserate on something that sucks?
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For real. Dating is such an uncomfortable space and I know classism was always a thing, but the body shaming is a nightmare when people can just scroll past or filter you out.
It's not that as much as I've never been somebody's first option in anything. Not relationships, not friendships. It's a very, very, very, rare day when someone hits me up to hang out.
Oh, I see what you meant now. Thanks for clarifying it for me.
When you're not treated like anybody's first option, that really hurts. For be what it's worth, I'm sorry that you're experiencing that.