▲ 86 ▼ Rant about something and I'll join you! (hexbear.net) submitted 3 years ago by Magician@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net 187 comments fedilink hide all child comments Anybody want to commiserate on something that sucks?
[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 30 points 3 years ago (3 children) Dating in hellworld fucking sucks so hard, dating while fat is even worse permalink fedilink source hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 21 points 3 years ago Amen. It normalizes devaluing people's feelings and lying for self-defense permalink fedilink source parent [–] Magician@hexbear.net [S] 15 points 3 years ago (1 child) For real. Dating is such an uncomfortable space and I know classism was always a thing, but the body shaming is a nightmare when people can just scroll past or filter you out. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 14 points 3 years ago (1 child) It's not that as much as I've never been somebody's first option in anything. Not relationships, not friendships. It's a very, very, very, rare day when someone hits me up to hang out. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Magician@hexbear.net [S] 13 points 3 years ago Oh, I see what you meant now. Thanks for clarifying it for me. When you're not treated like anybody's first option, that really hurts. For be what it's worth, I'm sorry that you're experiencing that. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Othello@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 10 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Uhh yeah, he already had a boyfriend. Everyone's already taken it seems. I've asked out several people and they were all already taken. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) I can't even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the "touch grass" alternatives (including the memetastic "go to le bar") sound horrible in their own ways for single people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 21 points 3 years ago Amen. It normalizes devaluing people's feelings and lying for self-defense permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Magician@hexbear.net [S] 15 points 3 years ago (1 child) For real. Dating is such an uncomfortable space and I know classism was always a thing, but the body shaming is a nightmare when people can just scroll past or filter you out. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 14 points 3 years ago (1 child) It's not that as much as I've never been somebody's first option in anything. Not relationships, not friendships. It's a very, very, very, rare day when someone hits me up to hang out. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Magician@hexbear.net [S] 13 points 3 years ago Oh, I see what you meant now. Thanks for clarifying it for me. When you're not treated like anybody's first option, that really hurts. For be what it's worth, I'm sorry that you're experiencing that. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 14 points 3 years ago (1 child) It's not that as much as I've never been somebody's first option in anything. Not relationships, not friendships. It's a very, very, very, rare day when someone hits me up to hang out. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Magician@hexbear.net [S] 13 points 3 years ago Oh, I see what you meant now. Thanks for clarifying it for me. When you're not treated like anybody's first option, that really hurts. For be what it's worth, I'm sorry that you're experiencing that. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Magician@hexbear.net [S] 13 points 3 years ago Oh, I see what you meant now. Thanks for clarifying it for me. When you're not treated like anybody's first option, that really hurts. For be what it's worth, I'm sorry that you're experiencing that. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Othello@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 10 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Uhh yeah, he already had a boyfriend. Everyone's already taken it seems. I've asked out several people and they were all already taken. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) I can't even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the "touch grass" alternatives (including the memetastic "go to le bar") sound horrible in their own ways for single people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 10 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Uhh yeah, he already had a boyfriend. Everyone's already taken it seems. I've asked out several people and they were all already taken. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) I can't even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the "touch grass" alternatives (including the memetastic "go to le bar") sound horrible in their own ways for single people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Othello@hexbear.net 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) I can't even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the "touch grass" alternatives (including the memetastic "go to le bar") sound horrible in their own ways for single people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) I can't even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the "touch grass" alternatives (including the memetastic "go to le bar") sound horrible in their own ways for single people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Othello@hexbear.net 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Othello@hexbear.net 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
