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For me it is not about documenting my life at all. It is about processing very strong emotions (negative, positive, neutral?) that I can't move on from.
Here are all entries in my diary:
Note the names are abbreviated with just a letter in the entry itself too. In the moment it is often too hard for me to write the actual name. I have removed the exact date but I don't think the titles are too sensitve.
I review my entries like once a year and it is still very hard to read some of them. I think remembering the past is very importnat. It also shows growth, improvement and development.
Older ones are sadly lost to time. I think it really helped me improve myself a lot.
I never force myself to write them. I write them when I feel I have to. It also keeps the number low and the impact high ideal for a yearly review.
Some have blocks of dated commentary at the end. I never edit existing writing though. Once it is written it is frozen.
I could never articulate it this well, but this also applies to me. Except I don't usually title my entries. The few I have are:
Oh, and "Dear Ben". It's things I've had the urge to share with my brother since he died back in 2020. Couldn't go back and read that one for a long time, but I can now (for the most part). Like you said, helps demonstrate to myself how much I've grown.
Anyways, thanks for sharing.
I add the titles after I am done writing the initial entry usually.
Thanks for sharing too!
Can't tell if these entries sound like a standup set or an album drop. ๐ค
I guess if I wanted (and had the skills), I could see a way to turn it into either. ๐
But alas I would rather not. Maybe in 20 years or something.