I sometimes think I should but then I'm like is my life really that worth documenting?

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[–] 9 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (4 children)

For me it is not about documenting my life at all. It is about processing very strong emotions (negative, positive, neutral?) that I can't move on from.

Here are all entries in my diary:

2025-07 The Pornhub Hoody
2025-01 Debating K
2024-10 The criteria
2024-10 No Encounter
2024-10 A Pawn in their game
2024-08 What a Wash
2024-03 S The Aftermath
2021-06 T admiration 

Note the names are abbreviated with just a letter in the entry itself too. In the moment it is often too hard for me to write the actual name. I have removed the exact date but I don't think the titles are too sensitve.

I review my entries like once a year and it is still very hard to read some of them. I think remembering the past is very importnat. It also shows growth, improvement and development.

Older ones are sadly lost to time. I think it really helped me improve myself a lot.

I never force myself to write them. I write them when I feel I have to. It also keeps the number low and the impact high ideal for a yearly review.

Some have blocks of dated commentary at the end. I never edit existing writing though. Once it is written it is frozen.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago* (1 child)

    I could never articulate it this well, but this also applies to me. Except I don't usually title my entries. The few I have are:

    • FUCK THIS
    • I'm not in love
    • Real shit
    • Real shit pt. 2

    Oh, and "Dear Ben". It's things I've had the urge to share with my brother since he died back in 2020. Couldn't go back and read that one for a long time, but I can now (for the most part). Like you said, helps demonstrate to myself how much I've grown.

    Anyways, thanks for sharing.

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