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Previously awkward teens, how did you eventually figure it out? (lemmy.world)
submitted 4 months ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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Trying to get some input for someone else. Was thinking of upskilling, finding a group, developing a hobby, guided activities. Any ideas?

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[–] 23 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I've gone up and down throughout my life, and these days I am quite an awkward individual in person.

However, what worked for me in my early 20s when I was probably at my most sociable was finding a hobby to interact with people in. Even something as simple as a monthly book group can work wonders on your social skills

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    From your perspective, is it easier to let them figure it out, or for me to try to participate also, then ease up when they find some momentum?

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    I think it has to depend on a person by person basis. For example, I have to be left for me to figure it out, if anyone else tries to get involved then I guarantee I will be burnt out after a day and then just give up for a while.

    Others may benefit from the help and guidance, but not all of us unfortunately 😔

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