Nonstance atheism is also called weak atheism, and the amount of weak atheists that still want to argue about it amazes me.
I concur with you, "non-belief" is a position! Otherwise, what the hell are they arguing about? Ignorance itself?
The critique is that absence of evidence is not necessarily evidence of absence. So if disbelief is justified only by “I haven’t seen proof,” then it risks becoming an argument from ignorance.