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[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 0 points 4 months ago (28 children) Who raised them? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 28 child comments replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago Google says GenX and Boomers, mostly. Millennial are raising alpha mostly now. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -4 points 4 months ago* (26 children) Apparently Jake Paul, shamefully. Given most millennials are under 36 (if you draw the line at 1990) their kids are not really old enough to vote on average, Gen Xers are better than boomers but it's so fucking far from a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 26 child comments replies: [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (17 children) We live what we learn. These are ancestral patterns. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 17 child comments replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (2 children) Yeah that doesn't jive anymore in the era of smartphones and social media unfortunately. Parents are overworked in increasing wealth inequality. School becomes a necessary daycare. Less time with parents, sadly. More time learning bad habits from peers. Combine with easily access internet access. And if parents are strict they're accused also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Connect the dots. Most saying it's easy aren't actually parents themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 1 point 4 months ago (1 child) also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Thats a serious issue; its not uncommon to see kids who literally don't know how to interact without their parents because their parents don't let them socialize without hovering directly over. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* While my own parents weren't helicopter parents in the traditional sense, I was around adults more than most kids much of my childhood and that was both good and bad. For childhood it was harder because my maturity level relative to my peers was much higher. I expected peers to behave like the adults in my life and with reason and maturity and found neither. On the other hand it was an investment into adulthood and I had dodged A LOT of things other people did not. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -4 points 4 months ago (13 children) Ah yes, I remember in history being taught about the Gaul invasion of Rome being promoted by Gaelic Psyops' app ChikChok. /s permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (12 children) That's karma. Feel more clever than those who came before, find new ways to make the same root mistakes, curse the kids for not being grateful, not understanding our real struggles. No wonder kids check out, decide to sell themselves, drugs, some sort of "favors" while giving a fat middle finger to the 'rents and "can't/don't" have time for them. I was that kid. So were my parents. And theirs. The parent still in my life is bitter, angry, narcissistic. And after some hard life lessons, I realized how blessed I am. I caught glimpses of their trauma. One day a simple blurted truth and refused to speak of it again. And I suffered the same trauma by their hands. And I understood. Forgave. Loved anyway, from afar, when necessary. And now. Now as the light dims in their eyes, I realize how most actions, beliefs were from their own trauma. I recognize the impossible choices that had to be made. And I am so fucking grateful. Because it was still hard. But just a little bit less worse because of those impossible choices. And I see your bitterness, probably from some sort of trauma. I wish you healing. Especially if you have kids. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [+] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -6 points 4 months ago (11 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] athatet@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 months ago It’s because a lot of your comments need replies. Maybe consider eating your own ass? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 4 months ago I feel bad for your kids. If they're fucked up, it's probably your fault. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (8 children) Sorry you don't like replying to you on a public forum. If you don't like that, don't post or comment. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent [–] CrimsonMishaps@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (7 children) I’ve always considered millenials to be 1981-1995. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago Millennials don't exist: https://youtu.be/-HFwok9SlQQ permalink fedilink source parent [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago (4 children) 1985-2004 https://www.jchs.harvard.edu/blog/defining-the-generations-redux permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (1 child) 1985?! Nah there's no way those of us early 80s-ers are Gen-X I don't believe in hard cut-offs, but I reckon it starts at approx 1980, and ends at approx "remembers 9/11" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago I've got a hell of a lot more in common with Gen X than millennials. 1980 is way too early. permalink fedilink source parent [–] OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* (1 child) That's one guy making his case for it. Nobody uses his metric. Nice try trying push your narrative by source dropping in hopes that nobody actually reads the link. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago If you'd actually read it, you'd see that it's used by the entire Joint Center for Housing Studies. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -5 points 4 months ago Feels weird to cut it off before the millennium. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago Google says GenX and Boomers, mostly. Millennial are raising alpha mostly now. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -4 points 4 months ago* (26 children) Apparently Jake Paul, shamefully. Given most millennials are under 36 (if you draw the line at 1990) their kids are not really old enough to vote on average, Gen Xers are better than boomers but it's so fucking far from a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 26 child comments replies: [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (17 children) We live what we learn. These are ancestral patterns. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 17 child comments replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (2 children) Yeah that doesn't jive anymore in the era of smartphones and social media unfortunately. Parents are overworked in increasing wealth inequality. School becomes a necessary daycare. Less time with parents, sadly. More time learning bad habits from peers. Combine with easily access internet access. And if parents are strict they're accused also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Connect the dots. Most saying it's easy aren't actually parents themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 1 point 4 months ago (1 child) also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Thats a serious issue; its not uncommon to see kids who literally don't know how to interact without their parents because their parents don't let them socialize without hovering directly over. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* While my own parents weren't helicopter parents in the traditional sense, I was around adults more than most kids much of my childhood and that was both good and bad. For childhood it was harder because my maturity level relative to my peers was much higher. I expected peers to behave like the adults in my life and with reason and maturity and found neither. On the other hand it was an investment into adulthood and I had dodged A LOT of things other people did not. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -4 points 4 months ago (13 children) Ah yes, I remember in history being taught about the Gaul invasion of Rome being promoted by Gaelic Psyops' app ChikChok. /s permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (12 children) That's karma. Feel more clever than those who came before, find new ways to make the same root mistakes, curse the kids for not being grateful, not understanding our real struggles. No wonder kids check out, decide to sell themselves, drugs, some sort of "favors" while giving a fat middle finger to the 'rents and "can't/don't" have time for them. I was that kid. So were my parents. And theirs. The parent still in my life is bitter, angry, narcissistic. And after some hard life lessons, I realized how blessed I am. I caught glimpses of their trauma. One day a simple blurted truth and refused to speak of it again. And I suffered the same trauma by their hands. And I understood. Forgave. Loved anyway, from afar, when necessary. And now. Now as the light dims in their eyes, I realize how most actions, beliefs were from their own trauma. I recognize the impossible choices that had to be made. And I am so fucking grateful. Because it was still hard. But just a little bit less worse because of those impossible choices. And I see your bitterness, probably from some sort of trauma. I wish you healing. Especially if you have kids. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [+] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -6 points 4 months ago (11 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] athatet@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 months ago It’s because a lot of your comments need replies. Maybe consider eating your own ass? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 4 months ago I feel bad for your kids. If they're fucked up, it's probably your fault. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (8 children) Sorry you don't like replying to you on a public forum. If you don't like that, don't post or comment. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent [–] CrimsonMishaps@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (7 children) I’ve always considered millenials to be 1981-1995. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago Millennials don't exist: https://youtu.be/-HFwok9SlQQ permalink fedilink source parent [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago (4 children) 1985-2004 https://www.jchs.harvard.edu/blog/defining-the-generations-redux permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (1 child) 1985?! Nah there's no way those of us early 80s-ers are Gen-X I don't believe in hard cut-offs, but I reckon it starts at approx 1980, and ends at approx "remembers 9/11" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago I've got a hell of a lot more in common with Gen X than millennials. 1980 is way too early. permalink fedilink source parent [–] OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* (1 child) That's one guy making his case for it. Nobody uses his metric. Nice try trying push your narrative by source dropping in hopes that nobody actually reads the link. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago If you'd actually read it, you'd see that it's used by the entire Joint Center for Housing Studies. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -5 points 4 months ago Feels weird to cut it off before the millennium. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (17 children) We live what we learn. These are ancestral patterns. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 17 child comments replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (2 children) Yeah that doesn't jive anymore in the era of smartphones and social media unfortunately. Parents are overworked in increasing wealth inequality. School becomes a necessary daycare. Less time with parents, sadly. More time learning bad habits from peers. Combine with easily access internet access. And if parents are strict they're accused also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Connect the dots. Most saying it's easy aren't actually parents themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 1 point 4 months ago (1 child) also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Thats a serious issue; its not uncommon to see kids who literally don't know how to interact without their parents because their parents don't let them socialize without hovering directly over. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* While my own parents weren't helicopter parents in the traditional sense, I was around adults more than most kids much of my childhood and that was both good and bad. For childhood it was harder because my maturity level relative to my peers was much higher. I expected peers to behave like the adults in my life and with reason and maturity and found neither. On the other hand it was an investment into adulthood and I had dodged A LOT of things other people did not. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -4 points 4 months ago (13 children) Ah yes, I remember in history being taught about the Gaul invasion of Rome being promoted by Gaelic Psyops' app ChikChok. /s permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (12 children) That's karma. Feel more clever than those who came before, find new ways to make the same root mistakes, curse the kids for not being grateful, not understanding our real struggles. No wonder kids check out, decide to sell themselves, drugs, some sort of "favors" while giving a fat middle finger to the 'rents and "can't/don't" have time for them. I was that kid. So were my parents. And theirs. The parent still in my life is bitter, angry, narcissistic. And after some hard life lessons, I realized how blessed I am. I caught glimpses of their trauma. One day a simple blurted truth and refused to speak of it again. And I suffered the same trauma by their hands. And I understood. Forgave. Loved anyway, from afar, when necessary. And now. Now as the light dims in their eyes, I realize how most actions, beliefs were from their own trauma. I recognize the impossible choices that had to be made. And I am so fucking grateful. Because it was still hard. But just a little bit less worse because of those impossible choices. And I see your bitterness, probably from some sort of trauma. I wish you healing. Especially if you have kids. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [+] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -6 points 4 months ago (11 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] athatet@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 months ago It’s because a lot of your comments need replies. Maybe consider eating your own ass? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 4 months ago I feel bad for your kids. If they're fucked up, it's probably your fault. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (8 children) Sorry you don't like replying to you on a public forum. If you don't like that, don't post or comment. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (2 children) Yeah that doesn't jive anymore in the era of smartphones and social media unfortunately. Parents are overworked in increasing wealth inequality. School becomes a necessary daycare. Less time with parents, sadly. More time learning bad habits from peers. Combine with easily access internet access. And if parents are strict they're accused also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Connect the dots. Most saying it's easy aren't actually parents themselves. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 1 point 4 months ago (1 child) also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Thats a serious issue; its not uncommon to see kids who literally don't know how to interact without their parents because their parents don't let them socialize without hovering directly over. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* While my own parents weren't helicopter parents in the traditional sense, I was around adults more than most kids much of my childhood and that was both good and bad. For childhood it was harder because my maturity level relative to my peers was much higher. I expected peers to behave like the adults in my life and with reason and maturity and found neither. On the other hand it was an investment into adulthood and I had dodged A LOT of things other people did not. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 1 point 4 months ago (1 child) also of being helicopter parents bubble-wrapping their kids from reality. Thats a serious issue; its not uncommon to see kids who literally don't know how to interact without their parents because their parents don't let them socialize without hovering directly over. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] lennybird@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* While my own parents weren't helicopter parents in the traditional sense, I was around adults more than most kids much of my childhood and that was both good and bad. For childhood it was harder because my maturity level relative to my peers was much higher. I expected peers to behave like the adults in my life and with reason and maturity and found neither. On the other hand it was an investment into adulthood and I had dodged A LOT of things other people did not. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* While my own parents weren't helicopter parents in the traditional sense, I was around adults more than most kids much of my childhood and that was both good and bad. For childhood it was harder because my maturity level relative to my peers was much higher. I expected peers to behave like the adults in my life and with reason and maturity and found neither. On the other hand it was an investment into adulthood and I had dodged A LOT of things other people did not. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -4 points 4 months ago (13 children) Ah yes, I remember in history being taught about the Gaul invasion of Rome being promoted by Gaelic Psyops' app ChikChok. /s permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (12 children) That's karma. Feel more clever than those who came before, find new ways to make the same root mistakes, curse the kids for not being grateful, not understanding our real struggles. No wonder kids check out, decide to sell themselves, drugs, some sort of "favors" while giving a fat middle finger to the 'rents and "can't/don't" have time for them. I was that kid. So were my parents. And theirs. The parent still in my life is bitter, angry, narcissistic. And after some hard life lessons, I realized how blessed I am. I caught glimpses of their trauma. One day a simple blurted truth and refused to speak of it again. And I suffered the same trauma by their hands. And I understood. Forgave. Loved anyway, from afar, when necessary. And now. Now as the light dims in their eyes, I realize how most actions, beliefs were from their own trauma. I recognize the impossible choices that had to be made. And I am so fucking grateful. Because it was still hard. But just a little bit less worse because of those impossible choices. And I see your bitterness, probably from some sort of trauma. I wish you healing. Especially if you have kids. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [+] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -6 points 4 months ago (11 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] athatet@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 months ago It’s because a lot of your comments need replies. Maybe consider eating your own ass? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 4 months ago I feel bad for your kids. If they're fucked up, it's probably your fault. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (8 children) Sorry you don't like replying to you on a public forum. If you don't like that, don't post or comment. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 months ago (12 children) That's karma. Feel more clever than those who came before, find new ways to make the same root mistakes, curse the kids for not being grateful, not understanding our real struggles. No wonder kids check out, decide to sell themselves, drugs, some sort of "favors" while giving a fat middle finger to the 'rents and "can't/don't" have time for them. I was that kid. So were my parents. And theirs. The parent still in my life is bitter, angry, narcissistic. And after some hard life lessons, I realized how blessed I am. I caught glimpses of their trauma. One day a simple blurted truth and refused to speak of it again. And I suffered the same trauma by their hands. And I understood. Forgave. Loved anyway, from afar, when necessary. And now. Now as the light dims in their eyes, I realize how most actions, beliefs were from their own trauma. I recognize the impossible choices that had to be made. And I am so fucking grateful. Because it was still hard. But just a little bit less worse because of those impossible choices. And I see your bitterness, probably from some sort of trauma. I wish you healing. Especially if you have kids. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [+] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -6 points 4 months ago (11 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] athatet@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 months ago It’s because a lot of your comments need replies. Maybe consider eating your own ass? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 4 months ago I feel bad for your kids. If they're fucked up, it's probably your fault. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (8 children) Sorry you don't like replying to you on a public forum. If you don't like that, don't post or comment. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[+] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -6 points 4 months ago (11 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] athatet@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 months ago It’s because a lot of your comments need replies. Maybe consider eating your own ass? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 4 months ago I feel bad for your kids. If they're fucked up, it's probably your fault. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (8 children) Sorry you don't like replying to you on a public forum. If you don't like that, don't post or comment. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] athatet@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 months ago It’s because a lot of your comments need replies. Maybe consider eating your own ass? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 4 months ago I feel bad for your kids. If they're fucked up, it's probably your fault. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (8 children) Sorry you don't like replying to you on a public forum. If you don't like that, don't post or comment. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (7 children) Theres having discussion and debate in public and then theres stalking and trolling permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (6 children) there's only so many of us on here dude. we all reply to each other a lot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -3 points 4 months ago (5 children) Yeah and most of those messages actually contain content, not a chatgpt generated multiparagraph thinly veiled insult made to waste my time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[+] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (4 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (3 children) Amazing this got removed and not the person saying anyone who disagrees is a bot. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children) apparently "your banjo licks taste like cinnamon" is a slur now guys who the fuck doesn't like cinnamon. it is my best ice cream flavor. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pinto@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 child) To banjo, anything they don't like is a slur. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago Yo mommas so fat when she slurs around the house she slurs around the house You dudes are great for letting me workshop these that one really needs work permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CrimsonMishaps@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (7 children) I’ve always considered millenials to be 1981-1995. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago Millennials don't exist: https://youtu.be/-HFwok9SlQQ permalink fedilink source parent [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago (4 children) 1985-2004 https://www.jchs.harvard.edu/blog/defining-the-generations-redux permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (1 child) 1985?! Nah there's no way those of us early 80s-ers are Gen-X I don't believe in hard cut-offs, but I reckon it starts at approx 1980, and ends at approx "remembers 9/11" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago I've got a hell of a lot more in common with Gen X than millennials. 1980 is way too early. permalink fedilink source parent [–] OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* (1 child) That's one guy making his case for it. Nobody uses his metric. Nice try trying push your narrative by source dropping in hopes that nobody actually reads the link. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago If you'd actually read it, you'd see that it's used by the entire Joint Center for Housing Studies. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -5 points 4 months ago Feels weird to cut it off before the millennium. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago Millennials don't exist: https://youtu.be/-HFwok9SlQQ permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago (4 children) 1985-2004 https://www.jchs.harvard.edu/blog/defining-the-generations-redux permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (1 child) 1985?! Nah there's no way those of us early 80s-ers are Gen-X I don't believe in hard cut-offs, but I reckon it starts at approx 1980, and ends at approx "remembers 9/11" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago I've got a hell of a lot more in common with Gen X than millennials. 1980 is way too early. permalink fedilink source parent [–] OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* (1 child) That's one guy making his case for it. Nobody uses his metric. Nice try trying push your narrative by source dropping in hopes that nobody actually reads the link. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago If you'd actually read it, you'd see that it's used by the entire Joint Center for Housing Studies. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (1 child) 1985?! Nah there's no way those of us early 80s-ers are Gen-X I don't believe in hard cut-offs, but I reckon it starts at approx 1980, and ends at approx "remembers 9/11" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago I've got a hell of a lot more in common with Gen X than millennials. 1980 is way too early. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago I've got a hell of a lot more in common with Gen X than millennials. 1980 is way too early. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world 1 point 4 months ago* (1 child) That's one guy making his case for it. Nobody uses his metric. Nice try trying push your narrative by source dropping in hopes that nobody actually reads the link. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago If you'd actually read it, you'd see that it's used by the entire Joint Center for Housing Studies. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago If you'd actually read it, you'd see that it's used by the entire Joint Center for Housing Studies. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online -5 points 4 months ago Feels weird to cut it off before the millennium. permalink fedilink source parent