They've always been religious but like in the sane way. Now that the divorce is happening, they've gone full Evangelist style batshit lecturing about how sinful everyone's lives are. What can I do?

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[–] 28 points 6 months ago (1 child)

Most people join cults for community and structure and answers. There's resources like https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/freedom-mind/202104/the-definitive-guide-helping-people-trapped-in-cult and https://www.peopleleavecults.com/post/help-cult-involved but I think the general idea is stay calm don't crash out when talking about it, help them notice the manipulation techniques being used that are common to cults, asking questions that help undermine indoctrination and inspire more skepticism, and provide alternatives for the reasons they are wanting to join or stay in a cult without the manipulation and lies a cult requires to exist.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago

    They've always been religious but like in the sane way.

    They're probably not in a cult if they're still going to the previous Church. Likely a mental episode of somekind. If they got more involved with the Church that they were sane in, it might help.

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