I am saying that I don't understand much about being trans because of where I grew up so I'm thinking about what you wrote

I have an online account that has a woman's name and I would refer to myself on it as She/Her but the account exists for anonymity rather than gender identity and cause I like to see how people talk to you when they perceive you as a woman rather than a man

I understand from what you're saying that trans people use it to come out

the reason I am not seeing it this way is because I have a similar account on the internet but I am not using it to come out at all but I've also never met any trans person in person before so I am not the best judge on this