What I don't get, is people's inability to cope with their own limitations, or find their way out of problems without asking a magic box to do everything for them.
I don't know who those people are. I coded for 20 years before LLMs, and I coped just fine.
The AI is teaching you nothing it's just doing work for you.
Unless you ask it to explain things to you. Which is often required to fix the things that the AI can't get right on its own.
if you use it that's you're business but it's not your code
How is it not my code?