It's not sweeping sexism, it's just toxic masculinity that's the problem.

Feminism is the solution to most problems with men. Men are the ones rejecting the solution without even considering it. So who is sexist here?

Nobody is faulting men for their gender. They are being accused of protecting the bad actors by acting like 'no there is not a problem, I'm the good one'.

By staying oblivious in face of the facts, and not owning up to it and saying 'those stats are fucked up, we need to do better', you are part of the problem.