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how (in what situation) did you find out you are a pervert? (lemmynsfw.com)

submitted 11 months ago by oogle_b00gle@lemmynsfw.com to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com

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not sure if "pervert" is the right term. maybe "kinkster" fits better?

anyhow, in what situation did you figure out mainstream vanilla ideas of sex or intimacy doesn't rock your boat all the way?

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[–] onslaught545@lemmy.zip 4 points 11 months ago

For me it was probably around the 10th time I got in trouble as a child for playing doctor with similarly aged neighborhood girls. Or maybe it was when i got caught watching girls gone wild with my stepsister as a preteen (not long after our parents married, only 6 months younger than me).