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Anon tries to meet girls at college (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 year ago by [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 4 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Wish I was normal. I am WAY too socially awkward to start a conversation. Usually I need at least a couple of hours to warm up to somebody.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

    How do you warm up to someone without having a conversation?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    Occupy the same space and have group conversations instead of one-on-ones I guess.

    Like, invite people to join your group instead of going out just with you, it's less threatening and less of a "thing".

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)

    That's what I meant though. It shouldn't be "a thing." It's just a conversation. Group conversations are still conversations. You just have to see them as people, not as a goal. Once you get to know them and you find out of you actually like them, as a person, then you can more easily persue them without seeming weird.

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