Yeah no that sounds like a messy person being messy, at least in my circles "bleed" is more like when your character grieves and you feel a pang along with them, or when they're moved by an event or angry at a character and you get the same physiologic responses, not throwing a tantrum at the players for their in game actions.

Then again you did say they physically stopped the player so maybe they're not the only person whose lines are a bit blurred.