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[–] 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)

I imagine this form of abuse is done by sociopaths that convinced their traumatised partners this is actually a good thing.

All the people in this thread that they do it for years and it's normal? Sociopaths.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    My wife has done courses on warning signs for abusive relationships as part of some mental health first aid certification stuff.

    2 biiiiiig red flags are insisting on surveillance and not letting people have separate finances. We have a combined account sure, and also pocket money accounts and whatever else. For all I know she's set up a trust. I mean I don't think she has because she'd probably tell me but she has the freedom to do so.

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