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[+] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (9 children)
  • [โ€“] 5 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    I understand about the sibling situation. Mine was the golden child and I was not to put it mildly.

    You can only compare yourself to who you were yesterday. I think that's the way it works best.

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  • [+] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)
  • [โ€“] 4 points 1 year ago*

    I never compared myself. What I did was let family members define me ( and it was never nice ) I listened to them because I trusted them like family.

    it took me a long time to figure out to trust myself and not them.

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