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[–] 7 points 1 year ago (1 child)

I’ve been both dolled up and plain and there is a tangible difference to how you get treated.

I choose to look plain these days just so I can get a clearer read on character.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Word. I wear no makeup, I don't have high-end fashion clothing, and I don't really do much to my hair or style it. The difference between me now and me 10yrs ago (when I did do those things) is funny and sad.

    I'd rather do without all the extra stuff and, like you said, get a better read on character, than to doll myself up and question whether everyone is genuine or not.

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