▲ 265 ▼ Have your parents ever said something so unhinged that you’re just left standing there like🧍♂️? (sh.itjust.works) submitted 1 year ago by kingpepe8006@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 231 comments fedilink hide all child comments Mine hit me with the “We're spending all this money on you now so you can’t grow up and say we didn’t spend money on you when your were a kid.”
[–] TheThrillOfTime@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 year ago (3 children) You're in a masters program and your mom thinks you're lazy..... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 10 points 1 year ago (2 children) Well, according to her, university degrees are all worthless nowadays and "a masters is at a level a high school degree used to be at". She also told me my As were worthless because "everybody gets an A nowadays just for showing up to class". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Kuma@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago I have a lot of respect for you! Keep being motivated and being ambitious! permalink fedilink source parent [–] TheThrillOfTime@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) What are you supposed to do? Is there anything you could do that would be valuable in her eyes? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 3 points 1 year ago* Nope. I've been no contact for years, but when I still had contact, she just kept moving the goalpost. When I had good grades in school: They don't mean anything, only the grades for Abitur (A-Levels) count. When I had good grades in Abitur: It means nothing, noone will ever ask for your Abitur grades again. Only the university degree counts. When I had my bachelors: Bachelor is worthless, only the master is a REAL degree. When I had my master degree: The master degree is worthless.... And that's the point where I cut contact with her. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Don_alForno@feddit.org 4 points 1 year ago "What do you mean you're working? You're just sitting in your room all day." permalink fedilink source parent [–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago just like the trope of asian parents, not good enough. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 10 points 1 year ago (2 children) Well, according to her, university degrees are all worthless nowadays and "a masters is at a level a high school degree used to be at". She also told me my As were worthless because "everybody gets an A nowadays just for showing up to class". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Kuma@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago I have a lot of respect for you! Keep being motivated and being ambitious! permalink fedilink source parent [–] TheThrillOfTime@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) What are you supposed to do? Is there anything you could do that would be valuable in her eyes? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 3 points 1 year ago* Nope. I've been no contact for years, but when I still had contact, she just kept moving the goalpost. When I had good grades in school: They don't mean anything, only the grades for Abitur (A-Levels) count. When I had good grades in Abitur: It means nothing, noone will ever ask for your Abitur grades again. Only the university degree counts. When I had my bachelors: Bachelor is worthless, only the master is a REAL degree. When I had my master degree: The master degree is worthless.... And that's the point where I cut contact with her. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Kuma@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago I have a lot of respect for you! Keep being motivated and being ambitious! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] TheThrillOfTime@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) What are you supposed to do? Is there anything you could do that would be valuable in her eyes? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 3 points 1 year ago* Nope. I've been no contact for years, but when I still had contact, she just kept moving the goalpost. When I had good grades in school: They don't mean anything, only the grades for Abitur (A-Levels) count. When I had good grades in Abitur: It means nothing, noone will ever ask for your Abitur grades again. Only the university degree counts. When I had my bachelors: Bachelor is worthless, only the master is a REAL degree. When I had my master degree: The master degree is worthless.... And that's the point where I cut contact with her. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 3 points 1 year ago* Nope. I've been no contact for years, but when I still had contact, she just kept moving the goalpost. When I had good grades in school: They don't mean anything, only the grades for Abitur (A-Levels) count. When I had good grades in Abitur: It means nothing, noone will ever ask for your Abitur grades again. Only the university degree counts. When I had my bachelors: Bachelor is worthless, only the master is a REAL degree. When I had my master degree: The master degree is worthless.... And that's the point where I cut contact with her. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Don_alForno@feddit.org 4 points 1 year ago "What do you mean you're working? You're just sitting in your room all day." permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago just like the trope of asian parents, not good enough. permalink fedilink source parent