I thought this was a more well known thing and i didnt know the name of it. I didnt say it with any ill-intentions. Ive asked my family members before and they said it was especially common amongst women who had children. I tried to phrase it in a way that didnt offend anyone but i guess i did the opposite. Ive also heard other people say pretty mean things to women about this so i guessed thats what wet could mean.

Heres a link i found to what i was referring to: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/stress-incontinence/symptoms-causes/syc-20355727